Paris_1_DQ1,DQ2,DQ3&DQ4

DQ1

 Divorce rates in India are amongst the lowest in the world. 11 marriages out of 1,000 marriages (around 1 marriage out of 100 marriages) ends up to divorce in India. I believe that's because in the U.S we have the freedom to voice our opinion in a marriage and us Americans usually want everything to work our way somewhat selfishly enabling our marriages to end in divorce. The low rate is mainly because most Indians still live in villages, where divorce remains a an important factor that can destroy a family's reputation and leave a woman an outcast/outsider for the rest of her life. Their divorce rate is actually slightly rising mostly because women in India feel they have values that have to be tended to and if that man is not being cautious or watchful of those and is being selfish the marriage will most definitely end up a marital catastrophe. In the U.S. divorce can just come easily if we just don't want to be with that person anymore. In India it's not that easy. They reflect more over their lives and consequences of leaving their other half. Therefore India has the lowest divorce rate. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/04/12/india-divorce-rate-rise_n_848201.html

DQ2

I honestly believe marriages should not be arranged by parents. I believe they should be approved though. Nobody knows how you feel towards your other half except you so if your parents don't approve of it that's on them. On the other hand, if his/her parents don't approve of it you just might have to do some reconsidering. I had a lot of freedom in choosing the relationship am in now. I do plan on getting married and i also plan on getting her parents approval first before i start planning everything out. I just think it's a difference if your parents don't approve it than if your partner's parents don't approve of it. I'm not rebellious but that's just how i feel.       
 DQ3:
It is scientifically proven that the brain doesn't fully develop until the age of 25.The emotional makeup of a child is fully developed at age 5.  Although the brain reaches its full adult weight by the age of 21. Interesting! The neural connections of the brain continue to form, change and redirect when contacted with new experiences and new ideas. I stated that to tell you that you can't possibly have the mindset of staying in one relationship forever because your mind is still growing. Well even though i feel that way towards my other half the majority of college students feel the urge to get out and explore. College students like the idea of exploring new relationships and college is the place to be. Maybe you meet somebody that has more similarities that you have than your other half does. Will you leave her?  We are still developing mentally and emotionally so our mentality towards dating or romantic relationships and marriage our two different things. They should be a combination of the two.  I only date a person if i can see myself with them in the future and I'm in college too but college students just want to have fun; point blank. Seniors are a little older and they know they will be graduation soon so its a possibility that they will find that person they can branch out with in life. Maybe if they surveyed seniors instead of all college students they would get better results with their research.://www.academic.marist.edu/mwwatch/fall05/science1.htm

DQ4:

I have presented an unfair relationship. In my perspective it was revenge because i was presented with many unfair relationships. I am honestly in my first serious relationship. I acted as if i cared many times and that's somewhat rude but i did whatever i had to to get payback. It's immature but that was in the past. Most of us easily fall in love so it's easy to fall for any type of relationship that feels good. It's not good to present unfair relationships because that's when hearts get broken and when hearts are broken emotions are destroyed