Belkys_1_DQ4

This story has two sides, but I have to warn you that this post is completely biases towards one side of the situation I am about to expose.
Two acquaintances of mine were involved in a romantic relationship, it seemed to be that both were happy with the way things were. However, I realized that it was a codependent relationship. The girl had low self-esteem and insecurity problems, therefore she was always depending on him to make decisions. He knew she did not have a strong personality so he used to always ask her to clean his house, cook for him, do his laundry and other chores. If she refused, he would be upset and angry at her, until she finally do all that he asked her to do. I said this was a bias post because I show him as the "bad guy of the movie", although she was not a little girl, he was taking advantage of her. Even though he alleged to care about her, being with other girls (doing things that should not be done when being in a serious relationship) and what is more, look for her merely to use her to serve him does not show a behavior of someone just nor of a fair relationship.

“Codependency, by definition, means making the relationship more important to you than you are to yourself,”http://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/features/signs-of-a-codependent-relationship