Sheryl_4_OL

The nearest people are the most powerful influence to make us change our minds. Is unconscious, we do not plan it, but happens. We can start thinking some possibilities for an “x” situation, and after listen other opinions probably our mind is going to change.

Well, as we have to share a personal experience, here I go. I had a classmate called Alfonso in high school. Then, when I was in college, in my country, I did a new friend called Joselyn, and they met each other through me. They started to date, and I was so happy because I thought he was a nice guy for her. During my high school years I saw that he tried his girlfriend (the one that he had in that time) with so much love and so I thought he was going to be the same with Joselyn. At first they look so happy, but then she started to tell me that she was feeling that something was wrong with him. I didn’t really care at first because I thought she was being a little bit paranoid, but the time showed me that she was right.  At the end I discovered he was not what I thought for a long time, and I could not believe it until she made me see it.

It disappointed me so much, but now it does not matter. The point is that I had a different idea of him, but when Joselyn convinced me (with acts) about the truth, I discovered that I had been wrong.