Cici_1_DQ4

I can only think of one relationship honestly. The people involved in said relationship where together since highschool, so basically highschool sweet hearts. They were together for about 30 years of marriage and then the marriage ended. And as I look back on it the man in the relationship demanded all attention be on him all the time, while the woman wanted to be with her parents and care for them because they are older and need help, so she wasn't always able to be around 24/7 like he wanted. He put all this pressure on her to make HIM happy and that if he was in a bad mood, she was responsible. But to everyone they knew, no one would suspect these major issues. Yeah they fought, but they had always made up. I always had a feeling something was being hidden from everyone because niether of them ever seemed truely happy. Someone was always upset about something and they blamed one another, or believed they were the cause of all problems. No one was willing to take the blame for what they did wrong. Neither was willing to work it out in the way the other person wanted. They played to everyone that everything was good, even though we all could see something wasn't right. It wasn't fair for the woman to take all the blame for the mans problems. Yes I sound maybe a little harsh, but he is a grown adult who doesnt know how to be responsible for himself. But the woman is no angel, she put all her energy into her parents and probaly should have spent a little more time talking and being with her spouse.