Thursday, August 30, 2012

Rena_2_DQ5

Nonverbal:
  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • Instagram
  • Pinterest
  • Google+
  • Blogger 
  • Skype (instant message)
  • Text messaging
  • Letters (yes, I do still write letters)
  • World of Warcraft (chat, mail, and guild forums)
Verbal:
  • In person
  • Phone calls
  • Skype (call or video call)
  • World of Warcraft (Vent a.k.a. voice chat)
I think it's probably true that some of the ways I communicate with others are in conflict with who I really am. I try to be real and present myself as myself online, but I think everybody has a tendency to "touch up" their life and make it seem cooler than it really is. Personally, I have a very detailed Facebook profile (with the exception of omission of my phone number and physical address), and I think if you really looked at it and went through everything, you could get a good idea of what kind of person I am. I'm a little uptight and I'm not afraid to admit it. I have a very defined sense of humor. I'm artistic and musical. I like to document happenings in my life with strict accuracy. I'm very organized. I'm a nerd. And on and on and on. However, I'm sure that my Facebook profile makes me and my life seem cooler/better than in reality.

I'm a private person though, and my online profiles do not reflect that at all. Although detailed and abundant, the things you would find online are very topical. There's a lot more to me as a person than I present to most people. I don't think I have any double standards or present myself as uncertain about myself, however I do think I probably present myself as a prettier version of myself. You can't get to know me by reading my profile.

As far as verbal communications, well, that honestly depends on with whom I am conversing. Obviously I'm going to be more honest and more forthcoming with my best friend than someone from class I barely know, because, as aforementioned, I am a private person.

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1 Comments:

At August 30, 2012 at 8:03 PM, Blogger Belkys F. said...


It caught my attention that the first things you mention are social media websites. It is significant to see the impact that these sites have in our relationships.
However, we have to consider that not all the people are truly honest with what they say or upload in these sites. I am not saying that this is your case, because I also use social media to keep relationships going, I am just saying that not everyone is like that.

 

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